How The Womanizer Helps Me Manage Chronic Pain - Product Review

Good day, friends!

Kayteezee here, with a product review for people who have clitorises and who are interested in learning about new-ish technology in the sex toy world : suction and vibration. In this article, I’ll share a bit about the tool I use and how it works, as well as what it can do to help you manage chronic pain (it has been amazing for me).

First thing’s first: The Womanizer From their website “Our revolutionary technology gives you orgasms within seconds. Or minutes, or hours. Choice is yours. The touchless stimulation never actually touches your clitoris. Your body will never get used to the feeling, and you can come as often as you want.”

To the left is a link to a model you can get via Amazon - if you’re a Prime member, it’ll be in your hands in 2 days!

Quick anatomy lesson: the clitoris is a sex organ that exists for the purpose of orgasm. It is much more anatomically than the nub and hood with which you might already be familiar. Indeed, it it larger and more complex than that. Here is an article explaining the clit, and following is an image of its anatomy.

And here is an image of the clitoris with its subsequent parts…


The Womanizer and vibes like it, use air pressure and suction to stimulate the clitoris without the need for direct contact. I use mine with the opening of the head of the vibe placed towards and just to the side of my clitoris. In about 2 minutes, I’m having a massive orgasm… . or I can take it super slow, and enjoy the sensations. The machine itself is quiet, has a USB charger, and most of the products Womanizer makes are water resistant

I like this tool for couples as well, because the vibe doesn’t look phallic, and sometimes people can feel threatened or insecure by toys. More on this in a future article. I’d like to get back to how The Womanizer helps me manage chronic pain and other symptoms in a positive way.

When this tech arrived on the scene a couple years ago, I was still using my trusted Magic Wand, which I still love and adore. Anyhoo, check out the video below, in which a few women try the tech off camera and share their experience with it.

Sounds pretty amazing, yes? Did you hear the list of hormones the doctor referenced in her sharing? Aside from hormonal benefits, orgasms are wonderful for releasing energy. They didn’t call them ‘the little death’ for nothing a hundred years ago.

My Teacher, Mantak Chia, used to say that orgasm energy is the most power-full energy in the universe (he may still say this now, but my studies with him were 20 years ago). Orgasm energy is the energy of creation and creativity.. the energy of abundance and expansion. And the clitoris exists to orgasm, so if you happen to have one - yeah us!

My meditation practice is centered around arousal and the use of arousal to manage my emotions, keep my focus, feel better, and more. With specific regard to orgasm as a type of arousal, I find that self-pleasure is a wonderful way to lessen the pain I feel constantly, thanks to my chronic health considerations. And if i don’t orgasm, it’s OK too.. Just BEING with my body in a way that says ‘i love this body. i care for this body. i feel good in this body’ helps my experience of pain be more manageable.

So consider The Womanizer as a gift for yourself or a loved one, please.

In Service,


15 Minute Upper Body Relax and Restore