It’s OK to feel relief as part of your grieving process. CW - talk of grief.
Reading motives stops the possibility of more deeply understanding someone else, and if you wish to understand people more, I suggest you need to stop reading into their motives. Read More…
The belief that there is a place where I stop and you start is a source of great suffering, a Vajryana Lama used to say to me. And with that, there is a paradox in non-dualism, which is prominent in Buddhism and Taoism. This video was recorded live and is here for your viewing pleasure.
'love hurts'... and that's OK
Ditch 'constructive criticism'.